But this post isn't about that book, it is about my new children's book! (If you're new here, you may not remember that my first short ebook and children's book release dates stacked up like this, too. It is apparently my thing. This concerns me, because while I already have a pretty solid draft of what I hope will be my third children's book, I have no current plans to write another short ebook. Clearly, I'll need to change that.)
Anyway, back on topic.
I am beyond excited to show you the cover of my new children's book, Petunia, the Girl Who Was NOT a Princess, which is coming out October 20 (mark your calendars!):
|Interestingly, Petunia looks a little bit like me. But I don't have bangs. Anymore.|
|That tree does NOT look like the tree in our backyard, though. Our tree is an avocado tree.|
The book is about Petunia, a little girl who is not at all princessy, but is surrounded by princesses. She is lonely and wants a friend who will climb trees, build towers, and play ball with her. A new family moves in next door, and Petunia is disappointed to find that the new little girl is another %$#@*! princess, but- wait for it- Penelope turns out to like to climb trees, and build towers, and ball, too.
Because, you know, being princessy is just one aspect of a girl's personality. One might even say it is completely orthogonal to interest in building towers or playing ball.
The book came out of my frustration with the way our culture seems to write off little girls who love princesses, as if they can't also love all sorts of other things. Pumpkin loved princesses and LEGO. I even wrote about how stupid she thought it was to get a LEGO castle that didn't have a princess in it. (I note with some satisfaction that LEGO seems to have fixed this in its newer castle sets. Hell, you can get Disney Princess LEGOnow. Yes, we have some.) Petunia loves princesses and trains and cars. And soccer. (Here's a fact that might surprise people who know me as a kickboxing-loving, mostly pants wearing woman- the closest I have ever come to dropping out of STEM was in grad school, when I struggled to integrate my feminine side with my science side.)
You may note that my daughter Petunia has a namesake in the story. The funny thing is, she doesn't know her blog name is Petunia (she doesn't know what a blog is). This story is part of Petunia's bedtime routine, just like the zebra story was (and sometimes still is) part of Pumpkin's bedtime routine. In my mind, Penelope is the clear hero of my story because she is the one who realizes that loving sparkles and bows only means that you love sparkles and bows. Petunia, though, calls it the "tuna story" and identifies with Petunia.
But then, she also favors Elsa over Anna, and as we all know, Anna is the hero of that story.
To be fair, I did put Petunia in the title. But Penelope, the Princess Who Knows What's What didn't seem like a very good title.
Anyway- in a little less than a month you can have this book. It will be available as an ebook and a hardcover. I love the illustrations, and think my message would do a lot of people (kids and grown ups!) some good to read. Also, I like money. So I'm hoping it does really well! If you'd like to help me with that, I'm looking for volunteers to review it. You'll get an electronic advance copy and my undying gratitude, and all you have to do in return is write an honest review of the book. You do not need a blog to volunteer- Amazon reviews are awesome, too. And if you end up hating the book, you're welcome to say that in your review. If you're interested in volunteering, email me at wandsci at gmail dot com, or tweet at me.
Also- my publisher and I are planning our promotions for this book. One thing we'll be doing is a giveaway (or two?) associated with people talking about the book on social media. Details will be forthcoming closer to the release date, but in the meantime, start thinking about how you'd tell the world that your sparkle-hating child is #notaprincess or how your little sparkle-fiend is #notjustaprincess, because kids are unique individuals, not stereotypes.
I am very excited to see this! My daughter loves your first children's book (and I think has confused her daycare teachers by insisting that zebras say "shhhh" when they have animal sound discussions). She is also just starting to develop an interest in princesses...along with interests in dinosaurs, towers, and climbing things at the playground intended for much larger children. AND her name is Penelope! (Though we call her Penny 99% of the time, so she doesn't entirely identify with Penelope.)ReplyDelete
I'm not sure if I'm a good candidate to do a review from an electronic copy -- the novelty of the medium would probably overshadow the content if I tried reading it to my daughter, and she's probably a bit below the target age range, anyway at 2 years old -- but I am looking forward to the release!
The idea for the zebra story came from the fact that my mom wasn't paying enough attention during the 10,000th reading of an animal picture book and blurted out that zebras said "shhhh" when Pumpkin asked her. So that's come full circle! Thanks for sharing that story. It made me smile.Delete
Very exciting! I don't live in a world where culture puts down princesses, not by a long-shot. I suspect this may be related to the ambient pressure to formula feed rather than breast-feed, the unusualness of not wanting an epidural, and so on up through not understanding women who keep working after their kids are born if they can afford not to and the weirdness of not taking a husband's name (though I get a bye on the latter two because everyone knows that PhDs are different and have different rules, which I assume is a legacy of the plantation culture). We're not yet at the backlash stage, so it'll probably be a while (decades? centuries?) before we reach the self-actualization stage that the book is targeting. I predict this book will sell well on the coasts.ReplyDelete
As a side-note my kids have a gorgeous wooden castle set (that my In-laws bought) and my daughter calls the princess "mommy". (There's also a queen, but she doesn't have long enough hair, I guess?) I don't mind at all! (Though it drives my son crazy.)
Oh, I have a message for the princess-loving world, too. Petunia stays NOT a princess to the end!Delete
One of Pumpkin's best friends is the least princess-y girl I've ever met. Even here is California that gets her some raised eyebrows. That drives me nuts.
Congrats Cloud! Can't wait to read it. I may do a children's book write-up in October, so I can tie this in to that.ReplyDelete
That would be awesome!Delete
I'm looking forward to this. We've resisted the princess onslaught, not because we intend to deny Baguette all things princess-y, but because we want her to know a whole world of interests that may or may not include princesses. And because we want to expose her to a range of princesses--Leia, for example.ReplyDelete
And I am delighted that Baguette clearly identifies with Anna (unless she's singing "Let It Go"--but otherwise, she is all about Anna).
We resisted until Pumpkin was about 4, and then we started to feel bad that she didn't know the princess stories all of her classmates were in love with. Then, since we already had Cinderella for Pumpkin, Petunia got exposed much earlier! I've completely made peace with it. We talk about the stories and what messages are good- and we point out the ones we don't agree with.Delete
A colleague's daughter, who is about 4, has invented a character who she plays ALL THE TIME, demands stories about, dresses up as etc. - ACTION PRINCESS! Action Princess wears a tiara and a pink tutu with leggings underneath for when she hangs upside down off climbing frames, throws herself headlong into mud puddles because just splashing isn't enough, and refuses to rescue princes unless it's definitely not their own fault they have a problem. Action Princess climbs mountains to rescue kittens from caves, THEN combs their fur and puts bows on their collars. Penelope is clearly an Action Princess!ReplyDelete
My niece is currently an elf about 90% of the time because "they get to be pretty in trousers AND shoot things!"
The girls I know are going to grow up AWESOME and I hope your book inspires a few more!
OMG, I LOVE the idea of Action Princess!Delete
The reminds me of Shannon Hale's newish book, The Princess in Black. She is definitely an Action Princess! It's fun and cute. A short chapter book (VERY short chapters) my 2yo will sit through all of. (Though she may be a bit unusual.)Delete
I should definitely buy a copy of your book, I'm sure we'd like it too.
And thank you, someone who realizes Anna is the hero, yay! :) (I remember reading a pair of reviews of Frozen, a disparaging one and then the rebuttal. The critical review had a line about, "But come on, who thought Anna was the main character?" And I was like, "Um... Me for at least, like, the first half of the movie...?")
Side note (from tweet): Yes, sauteed cucumbers are delicious. Try with stirfry beef and a teriyaki sauce (from Help! My apartment has a kitchen!).ReplyDelete
Congratulations! This books sounds utterly wonderful. My youngest is a tomboy, has always been one, loves Legos (she's one of only a few girls in her Lego class this month. For a long time she refused to have anything to do with princessy, "girlish" type dresses and things. And then suddenly she flipped to liking dresses and pretty hair clips and Frozen. But she still likes cars and trains and playing with boys, too. I think she would really like your book!ReplyDelete
So yeah, I'd love an advance e-copy. . . more to the point, I think my daughter would, too.
Thanks for writing a book like this. Your daughters must be thrilled!
Awesome! I'll email you to sort out the details.Delete
The book is going to be a birthday gift for Petunia, so although she knows that "the tuna story" is getting turned into a book, she hasn't seen it yet. She keeps asking when it will be a book, so I am very excited to give it to her next week!
What a great birthday gift! Happy birthday to her!Delete
Yay! Congratulations! Looking forward to seeing the book!ReplyDelete
I actually don't have trouble with generic princess dress-up and "girly" things, because I ADORE sparkle, but for me the issue is specifically with the Disney licensed character thing and trying not to encourage consumption of so much STUFF (not to mention screen time). Which is hard in our family since the hubby works for the Mouse so it feels kind of disloyal ;)
We are just entering the Frozen obsession phase but I make T watch it in Spanish and that makes me feel like it's serving a purpose other than JUST entertainment (and also I can tune it out better!). Small victories, I guess :D
And I've got a nearly 5-year old boy who wants to be a princess and loves all things pink & sparkly and twirly. He also likes climbing and bikes and super heroes. I don't know what any of that means. Just that I think we need to expand even beyond "girls can be NOT princesses" to even more fluid thoughts on gender in young children.ReplyDelete
Ana, there are some fantastic younger children's books these days for supporting gender creative boys and girls. "Jacob's New Dress" by Sarah and Ian Hoffman, and "Roland Humphrey is Wearing a WHAT?" by Eileen Kiernan-Johnson, and "I Am Jazz" by Jessica Herthel and Jazz Jennings have all been favorites at my house. Highly recommended.Delete
For grown-ups wondering "what any of it means" (even for grown-ups who are parenting gender conforming kids) I recommend the excellent book "Raising My Rainbow" by Lori Duron (and her blog by the same name of course).
I absolutely agree. In some ways, we give our boys even less leeway than our girls. This story started as a bedtime story for my daughter, so it was sort of natural to make it about girls, but my NEXT book is about a little boy who goes to superhero school and is worried because he can't find his super power, and then (through a series of events) discovers that his super power is dance. I am almost ready to send it out to beta testers. Would either of you be willing to be a beta tester? It comes with my undying gratitude and a free copy of the finished book. If you're willing, send me an email (wandsci at gmail dot com).Delete
That sounds like an amazing book! I would be honored to beta test it - look for an email from me soon.Delete
@Ana - I have a friend whose son also loves princesses and sparkle, and she often posts adorable photos of his creative outfits on Facebook and I have not seen one disparaging comment. Which isn't to say those people aren't around, but I like to think it's changing a bit and she's doing her part to help people realize it's ok for kids to like what they like.Delete
Thanks for the recommendations hush, I will look into those. And I will email you Cloud, I'd love to read your new book.Delete